Help please.

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

I lived with my dad for the past 7 years, and my grandmother lived with us too. I never got along with either of them. I moved away 4 months ago, and stopped going there much, don't talk to them much. I called my grandmother Saturday and told her I would come visit her as soon as I moved. Last night I had a dream that my dad drove the hour and 45 minute drive here to get me and my nephew becuase my grandmother had passed.

Now I'm thinking I need to get up there and make things better between my grandmother and I, becuase out of all the bad things I said, I still love her, and if she passes, and I don't have a chance to say what I need, I will feel terrible .
Does anyone know what that dream could mean?

YB · Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:26 pm Post subject:

Could be your subconsciouses telling you that you need to do it before it's to late.
If you cannot get up to see her, you could call her first and talk with a follow up visit later if you are worried about not getting there in time.

flossy · Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 10:09 pm Post subject:

i think YB is spot on, go and see her and make your peace with her, if you dont and some thing does happen you will regret it

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

Thanks! Thats what I am going to do, I figured I'd go ASAP, and I am going tomorrow. I even called my step mom to make sure she was okay.

flossy · Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 11:55 pm Post subject:

aww good, lets know how it went, you'll feel a lot better once you have seen her Wink

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

Thanks, you guys are so helpful.
I will deff. let you know how everything went.

YB · Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 4:17 pm Post subject:

Excellent...

Quiver · Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 10:47 pm Post subject:

Godspeed Sbh052

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

I went yesturday, she was fine. I told her abuot it, and she kind of laughed and said she wasn't going anytime soon. I hope shes right!

flossy · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:28 pm Post subject:

good im pleased she's ok, i bet you feel better for see'ing her again though and makeing peace with her

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

Yeah I feel a lot better

YB · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 6:16 pm Post subject:

Wonderful news... Did you get things ironed out between you two then??

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

Somwhat, I told her how sorry I was for the way I treated her when I lived there, and she said it wasn't all me, she helped by fighting with me.

Were okay now, but I still think we can get better.

flossy · Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 12:25 am Post subject:

its a start, takes a lot to say sorry and admit you were wrong Wink

Sbh052 · Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 19

Yeah, for anyone it does, but for me it's like world news.
lol.