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cockeye
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| i've seen my uncle a few times, and my wife has seen her grandparents although not at the same time, but my mum always says that if u never did them any harm when they were alive, then they wont harm you when they're gone! so i personally think that if u loved them when they were alive, then they will probably just come back to let you know they're ok now and not to worry about them |
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bitterbuck1
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Cockeye,
How did your uncle appear to you?
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cockeye
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| Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 4:15 pm Post subject: |
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i could see his face,but not that clearly,also the room filled with the smell of sherry,which he drank all the time (he was alcoholic) he just stood there but i wish he would've spoke,coz i blame myself for his passing!!!!!!!!!(long story) i miss him so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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flossy
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| Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 4:47 pm Post subject: uncle |
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| im sure your not to blame for your uncles passing, maybe hes trying to tell you that from his visit |
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bitterbuck1
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| Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 3:02 pm Post subject: Re: uncle |
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| flossy wrote: | | im sure your not to blame for your uncles passing, maybe hes trying to tell you that from his visit |
I feel the same way as Miss Flossy.
He's letting you know that he's okay, and you should let go of any guilt you are harboring.
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cockeye
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| Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 6:49 pm Post subject: |
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cheers guys!
i've tried but it's hard,it's been 12 years and i can't seem to get over it the psychologist called it pathological grief!!!!! but personally i think they just like to give everything a name!basically i've been going through depression for the past 12 years. since he passed away. |
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flossy
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| Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 9:19 pm Post subject: hi |
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| do you not think because you blame your self for his passing is why you get depressed, if you came to relise it was,nt your fault, then maybe your depression would have its cure |
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bitterbuck1
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| Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 3:03 pm Post subject: Re: hi |
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| flossy wrote: | | do you not think because you blame your self for his passing is why you get depressed, if you came to relise it was,nt your fault, then maybe your depression would have its cure |
I know, it is easier said than done.
You keep blaming yourself Cockeye, and nothing is going to be left of you.
You'll become an empty shell.
Who do you want to win this battle?
You, a living breathing work of art, or depression a clinical term?
Put your gloves on a give it your best.
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mint
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| Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 10:59 am Post subject: |
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ive never had someonme come back from the dead but 1 unlucky timne   |
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thewoomachine
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if one of my loved ones came back id have a million and one questions id want to ask, whether id get the answers would be another thing xxx
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| Hey stranger.. where ya been hiding?? |
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bitterbuck1
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| Posted: Fri Aug 29, 2008 4:56 am Post subject: |
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Hi ya Woo!! 
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hi guys, good to be back,
ive been spending a lot of time promoting my own site this last few weeks so that has taken up a lot of my time, but im bk and doing the rounds 
never fear, im like the perverbial bad penny, il just keep coming back lol xxx
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hiya
thats nice to know, i,ll have to pop in ive never been in for a while  |
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will be good to see ya flossy hun xxx
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