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casper
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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my daughter which i lost six years ago visits sometimes she stands on the landing and calls mummy.my partener has seen her.i never knew her i lost her early in pregnancy due to lots of stress from neibours moving abd my mum and brother dying we know its her cause she looks just like my other five year old girl. |
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flossy Moderator
Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 4921 Location: UK tyne/wear (geordie land)
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 9:43 pm Post subject: ghost |
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i lost my son the same way i was 26wks gone when he died its the worst thing ever, i wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy |
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casper
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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i have lost two that way and it kills me. my partener puts it to the back of his mind but i always remember them.but i have no grave to place flowers for mine as i was only about four or five weeks with both.one was six years ago and the other was four years ago. |
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flossy Moderator
Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 4921 Location: UK tyne/wear (geordie land)
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 9:58 pm Post subject: ghost |
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7yrs this year for mine, at the time my head was in bits so i let the hospital deal with his crematoin to this day i wish i hadnt cos theres no grave for me to visit as they scattered the ashes in hospital memorial garden, i find it easier to talk about him these days.
your hubby might be just saying its at the back of his mind so he doesnt hurt you more by talking about it |
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bitterbuck1 Moderator
Joined: 18 Nov 2006 Posts: 3963 Location: Arizona, USA
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject: |
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I couldn't imagine losing a child. It seems that your children want to let you know that they are fine and are looking out after you. |
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flossy Moderator
Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 4921 Location: UK tyne/wear (geordie land)
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 10:37 pm Post subject: ghost |
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i like to think thats what they are doing |
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casper
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside
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Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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my partener does forget about them sometimes cos i have been to see psychics.when they bring up the subject of babies who died young i always say yes.he says whos that then. |
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flossy Moderator
Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 4921 Location: UK tyne/wear (geordie land)
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Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 10:34 pm Post subject: buba |
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i suppose its different for men, theres not a day goes by i dont think of my son |
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casper
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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im the same but the kids i have here keep me very busy.i get really bad at christmas time cos i have more people on the other side than i have here now. it must of been harder for you flossy than it was on me cos you had time to bond with your pregnancy where as with both of mine i had just found i was having them then they were gone. |
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flossy Moderator
Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 4921 Location: UK tyne/wear (geordie land)
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject: bond |
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i bonded with the thought of a new baby but i didnt feel any movement off him at all, the docs said he was in trouble from day one
i know what you mean about the kids keeping you busy kinda takes your mind off it for a while makes it easier to cope with |
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casper
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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im so sorry,they are all in peace now. |
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flossy Moderator
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:45 pm Post subject: buba |
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thanks
at least they are not hurting now, it just wasnt there turn |
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casper
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 1513 Location: merseyside
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:50 pm Post subject: |
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i tell myself the same thing. |
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